Ask these questions directly of the admissions coordinator or charge nurse. Write their answers — you will not remember them all. Evasive, vague, or overly polished answers deserve follow-up.
Question 1
What is your CNA (nursing aide) turnover rate in the past 12 months?
National average is ~99%/year. Below 40% is excellent. Above 60% means residents rarely see the same face twice.
Question 2
What is the nurse-to-resident ratio on the night shift and on weekends?
Evenings and weekends are when facilities are most under-resourced. A good facility answers this specifically. A vague answer is a red flag.
Question 3
Can you connect me with two or three families of current residents I could speak with independently?
A facility confident in their care will say yes. Reluctance is a signal. Any family you speak with is more candid than any staff member.
Question 4
What is your process when a family has a concern — who do we contact and what is the escalation path?
You want a clear, specific answer: charge nurse → DON → administrator → ombudsman. A vague answer means no process exists.
Question 5
Does this facility accept Medicaid, and if so, is there a separate Medicaid wing?
Many facilities have private-pay and Medicaid wings with different staffing levels. Know what your loved one will experience if they transition to Medicaid.
Question 6
What is your average response time to call lights, and how do you measure it?
Facilities that measure this are more likely to take it seriously. National guidelines suggest 5 minutes. Ask if they track it.
Question 7
What happens if my loved one's care needs exceed what this facility can provide?
You need to understand the transfer process before it becomes a crisis. A good facility has a clear, compassionate answer.
Question 8
When were you last surveyed by the state, and were any deficiencies cited?
Deficiencies are public record on Medicare's Care Compare. Asking directly — and seeing if the answer matches the record — tells you about transparency.